Spring has finally come to New York.
Walking around the city these days, you can see it in the sea of T-shirts. You can feel it in the breezy winds no longer freezing your skin off.
You can hear it in the hobo who has started shouting “All You Need Is Love!” at every person that walks along Third Avenue.
Springtime in New York is indeed a wonderful time. It is capable of softening and soothing everything and everyone, even New Yorkers.
Just the other day, one of my floormates was extremely annoyed at his computer game. Instead of punching and (further) cracking the sheet of mirror on our common room wall, he merely screamed. That’s springtime in New York for you.
As for myself, I’m wandering the streets more often, now that I no longer risk hypothermia if I get lost.
I’ve discovered a few more alternative cafes, a shop that sells only chess pieces, and a bookstore that also sells discarded street signs.
But best of all, I’ve rediscovered De La Vega.
I saw a De La Vega on my first day in New York. My virgin De La Vega was a goldfish bowl that held two goldfishes, with the words “Glass Bowl Living” inscribed by the side.
It was done in chalk, and the weather was turning bad. It rained that night, and by the next day the drawing on the sidewalk was gone.
Over the next few months I came across De La Vega’s sporadically.
One morning in October I woke up and found my dorm’s courtyard completely scrawled over with De La Vega’s.
He had come in the a.m. hours, invited by the guards.
I kept a lookout for his work afterwards, but after January, when the snows had come and the weather worsened, he seemed to vanish entirely.
Gone were the deceptively innocent drawings that depicted complicated social issues, the hilarious caricatures that reimagined his mother as Chewbacca and other movie icons, and the murals of just everyday people.
I worried. For a while.
I wondered if he had been prosecuted by the police, or whether he had simply given up, frustrated with the people that kept smearing and distorting his artwork.
But then homework piled up, my allowance started thinning out, and between grades and money, De La Vega disappeared.
But two days ago I was taking a walk through Alphabet City, trying to ignore the voice in my head screaming “Final Exams! Final Exams!”, and there it was.
Underneath a tree with pink flowers, amidst the gloss of the city: a chalk drawing of a goldfish bowl, inscribed on the side with the words “Glass Bowl Living”.
In less than a month I will return to Singapore. I will miss many things about New York. Coldstone Ice Cream. Netflix. The Strand Bookstore.
But if there’s one thing that I desperately wish to see in Singapore, it is a De La Vega.
Singapore has weathered many seasons and many storms. Is it not time for springtime in Singapore yet?
Saturday, April 15, 2006
Story: Apologia
I write this to you. I do not know you, and you do not know me, but this is for you from me nonetheless. Because I do not know you, you are anyone. You are everyone. You are the person who sits across the table from me in the classes I am taking, the classes I have taken, and the classes I will take, that person who does not understand my silence, whose laughter I do not understand, and who will therefore only remember me – if at all – as a curiosity. You are my friend, whose history I have crafted with my gaze and mind, and who likewise creates me. You are my best friend. You are my mother, my child, my third long-lost twice-removed cousin, shared of my genes and yet separated from my DNA. You are from Mars, from Pluto, from the thirteenth planet lost in the oblivion of collective amnesia, or only waiting to be discovered by those who would know you. You are the person who does not know I love you. I love you. But even if I told you you would not understand, because you would equate my love with sex, with roses, with torture, with childhood pets, with loss, with taking out the trash, with a flood of sounds passing through my lips, and I would equate my love with something quite different – an amorphous, shifting, unnameable emotion that lurches within me whenever I look at you. This is why I do not tell you, because I do not know myself. I do not know you either. This, then, is why I write to you: of and for the space that eternally lies between us. But this is not why I apologize to you.
I wonder, sometimes, whether you think about me, and, if you do, what thoughts brush across your mind. When I consider you, whether you are sitting there in your chair or whether you are passing by me on the pavement, I wonder what it is that you see when you look at me, what it is that I notice when I look at you, and I wonder whether either of those things are any more than illusions we graft onto each other with our imaginations. I wonder where you end and my version of you begins; I wonder what capacity for distortion and enhancement is in both of us. But the longer I look at you and listen to you, the more I think about you, and the more I realize that what you are is entirely what I think you are. If you are to walk up to me and interrupt my thoughts, even if you are to tell me precisely who you are, you will not be able to control my interpretation of you. Even if I agree with your assessment of yourself, it will still be my choice, and my agreement will still be different from your assessment in all the small ways that end up making all the difference in the world.
It appears to me, then, that you must likewise be responsible for creating a version of me. When you listen to my voice, when you size me up, when you bump against me or when your hand brushes mine, when you eat the sweet you take from my palm, and when you wrinkle your nose at my thrice-worn clothes or when you inquire after the brand of shampoo I use, you must create a similitude of me as well. ‘You’, then, are truly mine, and ‘I’ must be truly yours, whether we are shadowy presences making up each other’s numbers, or known elements in each other’s social diagrams.
But if we are each other’s creations, then everything else must likewise be refracted through the disparate lenses of each of our minds. “Not everything is about you,” people cry insultingly, but as I have shown to you, how can it be otherwise? You are the one who experiences everything, and so am I. Even if a person we both know dies or marries, you must feel your private grief or joy, as I do mine. From Plato, who in “The Trial And Death Of Socrates” writes that “the mind (is) the disposer and cause of all” (96), to Immanuel Kant, who in “The Critique Of Pure Reason” writes that “it is impossible for human beings to escape from their own psychology” (“The Critique Of Pure Reason” 79), to you and I, each of us who has lived, are living, and will live in this world, then, cannot help but adapt it to our own versions. And so you are there, while here am I, and we are separated by this space that exists between our minds. When everything from a supernova to the meaning of ugliness must resonate uniquely within you and I, how can there be such a thing as a meeting of minds? You can only create me, as I can only create you, and so we can only lose each other.
It is this that infuriates me, that makes me think we must ask each other, for both our sakes, “Who do you think I am” and “Who are you,” phrases that have echoed and will undoubtedly continue to echo in infinitely and uniquely vain strains. But when the explanation of one word that means different things to you and I must necessarily involve more divisive words, I suspect that we will be reduced to silent fools, pointing at objects that again widen our understandings of each other. But more than this, I feel that I should object to certain words that you might use, not because they would be wrong, but because by using them you will have made them a part of me. If, for example, you were to call me arrogant, and point out aspects of my behavior that led you to that conclusion, I might see your point, and I should afterwards always wonder whether those aspects are indeed deliberately, if subconsciously, arrogance on my part.
It is this multiplicity of selves, then, that further gives me pause. Already I question my own actions and motives. When I push my chair back from the table while all my colleagues are tucked in, do I do so because I am reticent, or do I do so because I wish to be noticed being reticent? I cannot answer this question, because, being conscious of either possibility, I must concede that both are equally true and equally false, and that selecting one would be an entirely arbitrary, and misleading, decision. It seems to me, then, that no one, not you and I or anyone else, could ever tell another, “This is who I am,” not only because other selves exist, but also because other selves might exist.
And yet what is “This is who I am” but what we tell each other every single instant of every single day that we are together? Brent Staples writes in “Just Walk On By: A Black Man Ponders His Power To Alter Public Space” of “(whistling) melodies from Beethoven and Vivaldi and the more popular classical composers” as his “equivalent of the cowbell that hikers wear when they know they are in bear country” (610). This is his equivalent of telling others, “This is who I am.” What is your equivalent, and what is mine? Style of clothes. Silence. Laughter at a brand of humor. Books. Movies. Likes. Dislike. Even when you ignore me, or even when I snub you, it is a choice, like every other choice, that enables us to proclaim ourselves and thereby negotiate each other. But these choices, like all other choices, are entirely arbitrary and hence entirely questionable. These are what we use, you and I, to say to each other, This is who I am, trust me, but I am afraid that we are different people when we are with different people, and so how can trust be possible? I cannot trust you, because I cannot trust myself. I am afraid that when I am with you I am unable even to recognize that “I instantaneously make another body for myself,” as Roland Barthes writes in “Camera Lucida” (14). I am afraid that you do the same, for how can you not? And so the unknowable people that we really are shrink further into ourselves, crowded and obscured by these infinitesimally different selves, and the space between us expands.
It is this that I wish to convey to you, this enduring sense that I am never quite myself, and that you are never quite yourself as well. It seems to me that only by this mutual admission can we move towards each other, and so what I really want to tell you in addition is not who I am, but that I am a mess of contradictions, qualifications, and justifications. I can only imagine that it is the same for you. It seems to me that only by embracing this complexity of selves can we begin to close the space between us, and so oftentimes chaos of sensibilities clash within me when I look at you. I wish to tell you not who I am, but all that I am, whether the pieces are incongruous, harmonious, or extraneous, and even if what I know of myself can only be the fragment of a whole. But as I consider the words that are at my disposal, I cannot help but feel that language itself has failed me. These words that we form with our lips and tongues and teeth, these letters that scribble themselves across a page into coherence and meaning – none of them are adequate for the emotions that I feel and wish to convey to you.
“Language is form and not substance,” Ferdinand de Saussure writes in “Literary Theory: An Anthology” (89), and it is precisely this artificiality of language that repels me. I cannot help but feel that language is a ramshackle construct we lock ourselves in, and that the more words we add to this sprawling artifice the more lost we become in it. I wish to tell you that I love you, but love is a word with flowering meanings of affection, attraction, infatuation, and more, and I do not feel all of those things for you. I wish to tell you that my love is of a teasing, whimsical, terrifying quality, and yet none of those three words are entirely appropriate either. I wish to tell you that I hate you, but from hatred are born a million derivatives as well. And so while you sit there, I am compelled to remain silent, even as letters clutter within me in my impossible attempt to translate feeling into word. I can only watch you, and hope that you have also once experienced this paucity of language.
And yet what is there left to you and I, if we should not have recourse to words? Stefan Georg writes in “The Word” that “where a word breaks off no thing may be” (“Das Wort” 1), and it is in this amorphousness of untranslatable emotion that we are equally lost. “It is language that creates and forms our reality,” Martin Heidegger writes in “On The Way To Language” (“The Linguistic Dit-Mension Of Subjectivity” 5); how can we think and grasp what has no name? We can only sense it vaguely, this part of you and I “which feels… lonely and abandoned, and… out of place and out of sync with the rest of the world,” as Andre Aciman writes in “Underground” (118). It is this part in each of us that we feel to be in unison when we cry together, laugh together, or shout at the cusp of the Grand Canyon together, and yet it is also this part in each of us that we can never confirm to be in unison, because we can never pin it down in words. And so it is this part in each of us that remains forever a mystery, to others and to ourselves.
It is an uneasy truce, then, that we have with language. We can never truly find each other in the primal vastnesses of the cries of grief, the laughter of joy, and the screams of rage and frustration. We can never truly find each other either in the misleading confinements of language, because, as Ellie Ragland-Sullivan and Mark Bracher write in “Lacan And The Subject Of Language”, “language names things and murders them as full presences” (4). But we can move towards each other, however awkwardly, in the interstices between word and feeling. “All speech possess a beyond,” Jacques Lacan writes in “The Seminar, Book 1, Freud’s Papers On Technique” (242). Happy, sad, angry – all words hint at something bigger than themselves, and yet smaller than the sounds that are their purest form. It is in the space where all these somethings dwell, then, that we will come the closest, and so it is in this beyond that we shall sense each other closest by, even if we can never meet.
It is not understanding that I ask of you, then, but your attempt at understanding. This space shall always exist between us at any point in time because of the limitations of language, the multiplicity of selves, and the impossibility of ever matching our versions of the world. And so when you break down in tears at something I find utterly prosaic, I ask you to attempt to understand that my stumbling and insufficient words and actions are not deliberate, but the limit to which I can strain towards you in providing solace. All I can offer you in return, then, is the same attempt at understanding, in the moments when you are unable to reach me just as I need you most. So it is with tears, so it is with screams, so it is with laughter, so it is with everything. So it is with lovers, so it is with friends, so it is with family, so it is with even strangers, so it is with you and I.
This monumental attempt at understanding, however, is not all that I have to ask of you, because this space between us is not only always present, but also always changing. Ngugi wa Thiong’O writes in “Enactments Of Power: The Politics Of Performance Space” that we must ask of any space “what memories does the space carry and what longings it might generate” (485), and because the future, the present, and the past are connected in myriad constantly changing ways, you and I must constantly readjust our answers to these questions. So, then, must we constantly renegotiate the space between you and I.
How can you and I, for example, predict the future, which is by definition something that does not and might never exist? And yet predict the future we must, because if one instant does not affect the next to come, then you and I are simply atoms drifting carelessly. And so if the present is to cause the future, you and I must believe in promises that can only be phantoms. Perhaps you will talk to me because you think you will like me. Perhaps I will shift my attention elsewhere because I think you will be dull. Perhaps I will not be likeable, and perhaps you will not be dull, but there can be no certainty in any scenario, only possibilities. The future for you and I, then, can only exist as a world of shadows, wavering between non-existence and permanence, and yet we must acknowledge its power in affecting us now.
But if the future reaches back and guides our way, so too does the past stretch forward to give us signs. Perhaps you will not talk to me, because you have heard the whispers from the grapevine. Perhaps I will be interested in you, because I have seen your vivacity. But if the future is a world of shadows, so is the past. Perhaps those whispers about me were exaggerated, and perhaps your show of verve was an occurrence as rare as its intensity. Even ignoring the rampancy of conscious lies and the rise of the occasional blue moon, who can deny the human failings of misremembrance and simple forgetfulness? The past, then, is such a fragile thing, so easily shattered and remade, and yet what choice have you and I but to believe in the distorted reflections that we see in it, if we should not become like blind children groping in the dark?
Emile Zola writes in “Therese Raquin” that “what one doesn’t know, doesn’t exist” (41), and this gap in knowledge is and can only be the state of things between you and I. And yet even if the past and the future can never truly exist because we can never truly know them, they still possess us. Hannah Arendt writes in “Between Past And Future” that “we are living and struggling in a Protean universe where everything at any moment can be almost anything else” (95). This, then, is what you and I must endure; each step we take can only bring us to a new brink, because the future is changeable and so is the past, and even if we are not experiencing change we must expect it, and so let it change us as well, like the man who saves a coin in case of poverty. And it is because of this, because we are constantly changing, that your attempt at understanding is not all that I have to ask of you. I have to ask of you faith as well, faith in shadows, and this faith is all I can offer in return. I have to ask of you honesty as well, honesty when faith fails so new compromises may be found, and this honesty is all I can offer in return.
But these are not all that I have to ask of you. I have one more thing to ask of you, and it is for this last thing that I apologize.
You might ask me, as I have often asked myself, why we should struggle with this space that divides you and I. If this space borne between us of language, act, time, and subjectivity can only forever separate us, because words betray us, because proclamations of motivations can only be deliberate and thereby inherently suspicious, and because time and subjectivity conspire to make liars of us all, why should we struggle at all?
Why should you and I hold onto who we are as individuals, and not simply adopt a commonality of clothes, mannerisms, lingo, and all other trappings and suits, in order that one day the same gesture, the same word, and the same object can bypass this space and strike the same chords within us? Or why should we not simply let go of each other and all others, and thus give up the struggle that accompanies such spaces?
The only answer I could give to you, if you should ask me these questions, is that neither conformity nor isolation is living. If I should become you, or if you should become me, we should both disappear, the individual becoming the pair becoming the individual. If you and I should let go of each other and all others, you keeping entirely to yourself and I keeping entirely to myself, even when you and I are with each other or amongst others, then we should disappear as well, because without others we cannot define ourselves; there is no good without bad, not smart without stupid, and living alone creates an invisible life, until it passes into oblivion like the sound a falling tree makes when nobody hears it. Jonathan Lethem writes in “Speak, Hoyt-Schermerhorn” of the “Doppler-effect fading of certain memories from the planet, as they’re recalled for the penultimate time, and then the last” (574). If you should lose yourself in me, or I in you, if you should keep entirely to yourself, or I to myself, then we can only become those memories, affecting no one and not changing ourselves, until we too ultimately fade away.
This, then, is why I apologize to you: not only because you must attempt to understand where no understanding is possible, not only because you must have faith in what can only be shadows, and not only because you must have the honesty to admit doubt when faith has failed, but also because, above, beyond and during all of these things you must do, you must continue to struggle, to be forever divided and yet forever linked to me, and so acknowledge me, even when all I can offer you are the same intangible things in return. This, then, is why I apologize to you: for this space that eternally lies between us and causes our strife, and yet defines us and allows us to live. This, then, is why I ask for your acknowledgement, even as I acknowledge you. This, then, is why I write this to you. This is my hello, the first step in many to come. And now it’s your turn.
WORKS CITED
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I wonder, sometimes, whether you think about me, and, if you do, what thoughts brush across your mind. When I consider you, whether you are sitting there in your chair or whether you are passing by me on the pavement, I wonder what it is that you see when you look at me, what it is that I notice when I look at you, and I wonder whether either of those things are any more than illusions we graft onto each other with our imaginations. I wonder where you end and my version of you begins; I wonder what capacity for distortion and enhancement is in both of us. But the longer I look at you and listen to you, the more I think about you, and the more I realize that what you are is entirely what I think you are. If you are to walk up to me and interrupt my thoughts, even if you are to tell me precisely who you are, you will not be able to control my interpretation of you. Even if I agree with your assessment of yourself, it will still be my choice, and my agreement will still be different from your assessment in all the small ways that end up making all the difference in the world.
It appears to me, then, that you must likewise be responsible for creating a version of me. When you listen to my voice, when you size me up, when you bump against me or when your hand brushes mine, when you eat the sweet you take from my palm, and when you wrinkle your nose at my thrice-worn clothes or when you inquire after the brand of shampoo I use, you must create a similitude of me as well. ‘You’, then, are truly mine, and ‘I’ must be truly yours, whether we are shadowy presences making up each other’s numbers, or known elements in each other’s social diagrams.
But if we are each other’s creations, then everything else must likewise be refracted through the disparate lenses of each of our minds. “Not everything is about you,” people cry insultingly, but as I have shown to you, how can it be otherwise? You are the one who experiences everything, and so am I. Even if a person we both know dies or marries, you must feel your private grief or joy, as I do mine. From Plato, who in “The Trial And Death Of Socrates” writes that “the mind (is) the disposer and cause of all” (96), to Immanuel Kant, who in “The Critique Of Pure Reason” writes that “it is impossible for human beings to escape from their own psychology” (“The Critique Of Pure Reason” 79), to you and I, each of us who has lived, are living, and will live in this world, then, cannot help but adapt it to our own versions. And so you are there, while here am I, and we are separated by this space that exists between our minds. When everything from a supernova to the meaning of ugliness must resonate uniquely within you and I, how can there be such a thing as a meeting of minds? You can only create me, as I can only create you, and so we can only lose each other.
It is this that infuriates me, that makes me think we must ask each other, for both our sakes, “Who do you think I am” and “Who are you,” phrases that have echoed and will undoubtedly continue to echo in infinitely and uniquely vain strains. But when the explanation of one word that means different things to you and I must necessarily involve more divisive words, I suspect that we will be reduced to silent fools, pointing at objects that again widen our understandings of each other. But more than this, I feel that I should object to certain words that you might use, not because they would be wrong, but because by using them you will have made them a part of me. If, for example, you were to call me arrogant, and point out aspects of my behavior that led you to that conclusion, I might see your point, and I should afterwards always wonder whether those aspects are indeed deliberately, if subconsciously, arrogance on my part.
It is this multiplicity of selves, then, that further gives me pause. Already I question my own actions and motives. When I push my chair back from the table while all my colleagues are tucked in, do I do so because I am reticent, or do I do so because I wish to be noticed being reticent? I cannot answer this question, because, being conscious of either possibility, I must concede that both are equally true and equally false, and that selecting one would be an entirely arbitrary, and misleading, decision. It seems to me, then, that no one, not you and I or anyone else, could ever tell another, “This is who I am,” not only because other selves exist, but also because other selves might exist.
And yet what is “This is who I am” but what we tell each other every single instant of every single day that we are together? Brent Staples writes in “Just Walk On By: A Black Man Ponders His Power To Alter Public Space” of “(whistling) melodies from Beethoven and Vivaldi and the more popular classical composers” as his “equivalent of the cowbell that hikers wear when they know they are in bear country” (610). This is his equivalent of telling others, “This is who I am.” What is your equivalent, and what is mine? Style of clothes. Silence. Laughter at a brand of humor. Books. Movies. Likes. Dislike. Even when you ignore me, or even when I snub you, it is a choice, like every other choice, that enables us to proclaim ourselves and thereby negotiate each other. But these choices, like all other choices, are entirely arbitrary and hence entirely questionable. These are what we use, you and I, to say to each other, This is who I am, trust me, but I am afraid that we are different people when we are with different people, and so how can trust be possible? I cannot trust you, because I cannot trust myself. I am afraid that when I am with you I am unable even to recognize that “I instantaneously make another body for myself,” as Roland Barthes writes in “Camera Lucida” (14). I am afraid that you do the same, for how can you not? And so the unknowable people that we really are shrink further into ourselves, crowded and obscured by these infinitesimally different selves, and the space between us expands.
It is this that I wish to convey to you, this enduring sense that I am never quite myself, and that you are never quite yourself as well. It seems to me that only by this mutual admission can we move towards each other, and so what I really want to tell you in addition is not who I am, but that I am a mess of contradictions, qualifications, and justifications. I can only imagine that it is the same for you. It seems to me that only by embracing this complexity of selves can we begin to close the space between us, and so oftentimes chaos of sensibilities clash within me when I look at you. I wish to tell you not who I am, but all that I am, whether the pieces are incongruous, harmonious, or extraneous, and even if what I know of myself can only be the fragment of a whole. But as I consider the words that are at my disposal, I cannot help but feel that language itself has failed me. These words that we form with our lips and tongues and teeth, these letters that scribble themselves across a page into coherence and meaning – none of them are adequate for the emotions that I feel and wish to convey to you.
“Language is form and not substance,” Ferdinand de Saussure writes in “Literary Theory: An Anthology” (89), and it is precisely this artificiality of language that repels me. I cannot help but feel that language is a ramshackle construct we lock ourselves in, and that the more words we add to this sprawling artifice the more lost we become in it. I wish to tell you that I love you, but love is a word with flowering meanings of affection, attraction, infatuation, and more, and I do not feel all of those things for you. I wish to tell you that my love is of a teasing, whimsical, terrifying quality, and yet none of those three words are entirely appropriate either. I wish to tell you that I hate you, but from hatred are born a million derivatives as well. And so while you sit there, I am compelled to remain silent, even as letters clutter within me in my impossible attempt to translate feeling into word. I can only watch you, and hope that you have also once experienced this paucity of language.
And yet what is there left to you and I, if we should not have recourse to words? Stefan Georg writes in “The Word” that “where a word breaks off no thing may be” (“Das Wort” 1), and it is in this amorphousness of untranslatable emotion that we are equally lost. “It is language that creates and forms our reality,” Martin Heidegger writes in “On The Way To Language” (“The Linguistic Dit-Mension Of Subjectivity” 5); how can we think and grasp what has no name? We can only sense it vaguely, this part of you and I “which feels… lonely and abandoned, and… out of place and out of sync with the rest of the world,” as Andre Aciman writes in “Underground” (118). It is this part in each of us that we feel to be in unison when we cry together, laugh together, or shout at the cusp of the Grand Canyon together, and yet it is also this part in each of us that we can never confirm to be in unison, because we can never pin it down in words. And so it is this part in each of us that remains forever a mystery, to others and to ourselves.
It is an uneasy truce, then, that we have with language. We can never truly find each other in the primal vastnesses of the cries of grief, the laughter of joy, and the screams of rage and frustration. We can never truly find each other either in the misleading confinements of language, because, as Ellie Ragland-Sullivan and Mark Bracher write in “Lacan And The Subject Of Language”, “language names things and murders them as full presences” (4). But we can move towards each other, however awkwardly, in the interstices between word and feeling. “All speech possess a beyond,” Jacques Lacan writes in “The Seminar, Book 1, Freud’s Papers On Technique” (242). Happy, sad, angry – all words hint at something bigger than themselves, and yet smaller than the sounds that are their purest form. It is in the space where all these somethings dwell, then, that we will come the closest, and so it is in this beyond that we shall sense each other closest by, even if we can never meet.
It is not understanding that I ask of you, then, but your attempt at understanding. This space shall always exist between us at any point in time because of the limitations of language, the multiplicity of selves, and the impossibility of ever matching our versions of the world. And so when you break down in tears at something I find utterly prosaic, I ask you to attempt to understand that my stumbling and insufficient words and actions are not deliberate, but the limit to which I can strain towards you in providing solace. All I can offer you in return, then, is the same attempt at understanding, in the moments when you are unable to reach me just as I need you most. So it is with tears, so it is with screams, so it is with laughter, so it is with everything. So it is with lovers, so it is with friends, so it is with family, so it is with even strangers, so it is with you and I.
This monumental attempt at understanding, however, is not all that I have to ask of you, because this space between us is not only always present, but also always changing. Ngugi wa Thiong’O writes in “Enactments Of Power: The Politics Of Performance Space” that we must ask of any space “what memories does the space carry and what longings it might generate” (485), and because the future, the present, and the past are connected in myriad constantly changing ways, you and I must constantly readjust our answers to these questions. So, then, must we constantly renegotiate the space between you and I.
How can you and I, for example, predict the future, which is by definition something that does not and might never exist? And yet predict the future we must, because if one instant does not affect the next to come, then you and I are simply atoms drifting carelessly. And so if the present is to cause the future, you and I must believe in promises that can only be phantoms. Perhaps you will talk to me because you think you will like me. Perhaps I will shift my attention elsewhere because I think you will be dull. Perhaps I will not be likeable, and perhaps you will not be dull, but there can be no certainty in any scenario, only possibilities. The future for you and I, then, can only exist as a world of shadows, wavering between non-existence and permanence, and yet we must acknowledge its power in affecting us now.
But if the future reaches back and guides our way, so too does the past stretch forward to give us signs. Perhaps you will not talk to me, because you have heard the whispers from the grapevine. Perhaps I will be interested in you, because I have seen your vivacity. But if the future is a world of shadows, so is the past. Perhaps those whispers about me were exaggerated, and perhaps your show of verve was an occurrence as rare as its intensity. Even ignoring the rampancy of conscious lies and the rise of the occasional blue moon, who can deny the human failings of misremembrance and simple forgetfulness? The past, then, is such a fragile thing, so easily shattered and remade, and yet what choice have you and I but to believe in the distorted reflections that we see in it, if we should not become like blind children groping in the dark?
Emile Zola writes in “Therese Raquin” that “what one doesn’t know, doesn’t exist” (41), and this gap in knowledge is and can only be the state of things between you and I. And yet even if the past and the future can never truly exist because we can never truly know them, they still possess us. Hannah Arendt writes in “Between Past And Future” that “we are living and struggling in a Protean universe where everything at any moment can be almost anything else” (95). This, then, is what you and I must endure; each step we take can only bring us to a new brink, because the future is changeable and so is the past, and even if we are not experiencing change we must expect it, and so let it change us as well, like the man who saves a coin in case of poverty. And it is because of this, because we are constantly changing, that your attempt at understanding is not all that I have to ask of you. I have to ask of you faith as well, faith in shadows, and this faith is all I can offer in return. I have to ask of you honesty as well, honesty when faith fails so new compromises may be found, and this honesty is all I can offer in return.
But these are not all that I have to ask of you. I have one more thing to ask of you, and it is for this last thing that I apologize.
You might ask me, as I have often asked myself, why we should struggle with this space that divides you and I. If this space borne between us of language, act, time, and subjectivity can only forever separate us, because words betray us, because proclamations of motivations can only be deliberate and thereby inherently suspicious, and because time and subjectivity conspire to make liars of us all, why should we struggle at all?
Why should you and I hold onto who we are as individuals, and not simply adopt a commonality of clothes, mannerisms, lingo, and all other trappings and suits, in order that one day the same gesture, the same word, and the same object can bypass this space and strike the same chords within us? Or why should we not simply let go of each other and all others, and thus give up the struggle that accompanies such spaces?
The only answer I could give to you, if you should ask me these questions, is that neither conformity nor isolation is living. If I should become you, or if you should become me, we should both disappear, the individual becoming the pair becoming the individual. If you and I should let go of each other and all others, you keeping entirely to yourself and I keeping entirely to myself, even when you and I are with each other or amongst others, then we should disappear as well, because without others we cannot define ourselves; there is no good without bad, not smart without stupid, and living alone creates an invisible life, until it passes into oblivion like the sound a falling tree makes when nobody hears it. Jonathan Lethem writes in “Speak, Hoyt-Schermerhorn” of the “Doppler-effect fading of certain memories from the planet, as they’re recalled for the penultimate time, and then the last” (574). If you should lose yourself in me, or I in you, if you should keep entirely to yourself, or I to myself, then we can only become those memories, affecting no one and not changing ourselves, until we too ultimately fade away.
This, then, is why I apologize to you: not only because you must attempt to understand where no understanding is possible, not only because you must have faith in what can only be shadows, and not only because you must have the honesty to admit doubt when faith has failed, but also because, above, beyond and during all of these things you must do, you must continue to struggle, to be forever divided and yet forever linked to me, and so acknowledge me, even when all I can offer you are the same intangible things in return. This, then, is why I apologize to you: for this space that eternally lies between us and causes our strife, and yet defines us and allows us to live. This, then, is why I ask for your acknowledgement, even as I acknowledge you. This, then, is why I write this to you. This is my hello, the first step in many to come. And now it’s your turn.
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Arendt, Hannah. Between Past And Future. Penguin Books. 1993. 95.
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Sunday, April 02, 2006
The New Paper Column: Feelin' Good
It’s eight at night, and I’m sleeping off a very heavy dinner eaten two hours earlier near Columbia University. I’m dreaming of – something, when someone knocks on the door.
Of course, whoever is at the door will not go away, so five minutes later, extremely groggy and irritated, I open the door to find one of my floormates standing outside.
“Do you have any eggs hidden anywhere that we can use?” he asks. “We need it for a party.”
I think it is probably significant that I do not even ask questions like ‘why’ anymore.
Half an hour later, I’m helping make stacks of French toast. Did you know that French toast apparently goes as well with soft drinks as with vodka?
Another hour later, I’m standing with my floormates outside one of the dorms in the North Tower of my residence hall, each of us holding a plate of French toast.
We are being told by an extremely apologetic student that the party has been unfortunately cancelled.
Apparently, a Residence Assistant had been informed that the party was going to involve alcohol, and so had been forced to step in.
On paper, you see, NYU policy forbids underage drinking.
Of course, that doesn’t mean I haven’t seen Resident Assistants themselves at some of these parties. Or residence hall security guards who ignore students blatantly traipsing in with alcohol bottles. Or the school paper reporting on beer pong parties.
An average NYU student consumes so much alcohol that a galang guni collecting bottles from NYU dorms could probably make it onto the Forbes list of richest people in the world.
But this, of course, hasn’t stopped NYU from occasionally breaking up parties.
When Residence Assistants have to do so, they usually say that it is because of the noise the party is generating and the disruption the party is causing other people.
They say this because stopping a party because of its alcoholic content is so laughable as to be ridiculous.
But everyone knows it’s about the alcohol, and so everyone laughs anyway.
So my floormates and I are standing here with our French toast, listening to the extremely apologetic student, and all of us are smiling at the silliness of the occasionally alcoholophobic administration.
The next day, of course, some people will say that the party self-destructed because too few people showed up. Maybe this is true.
When different people tell you different things, it can get pretty confusing.
But if you look at NYU’s precedent, and think about why different people are saying different things instead of working together, it can also get pretty depressing very quickly.
And meanwhile, plates of French toast go wasted, organizers and participants get annoyed, and the next time someone asks me to make French toast for a party I know I personally will be very very wary about wasting my eggs.
Is this what everybody really wants?
Of course, whoever is at the door will not go away, so five minutes later, extremely groggy and irritated, I open the door to find one of my floormates standing outside.
“Do you have any eggs hidden anywhere that we can use?” he asks. “We need it for a party.”
I think it is probably significant that I do not even ask questions like ‘why’ anymore.
Half an hour later, I’m helping make stacks of French toast. Did you know that French toast apparently goes as well with soft drinks as with vodka?
Another hour later, I’m standing with my floormates outside one of the dorms in the North Tower of my residence hall, each of us holding a plate of French toast.
We are being told by an extremely apologetic student that the party has been unfortunately cancelled.
Apparently, a Residence Assistant had been informed that the party was going to involve alcohol, and so had been forced to step in.
On paper, you see, NYU policy forbids underage drinking.
Of course, that doesn’t mean I haven’t seen Resident Assistants themselves at some of these parties. Or residence hall security guards who ignore students blatantly traipsing in with alcohol bottles. Or the school paper reporting on beer pong parties.
An average NYU student consumes so much alcohol that a galang guni collecting bottles from NYU dorms could probably make it onto the Forbes list of richest people in the world.
But this, of course, hasn’t stopped NYU from occasionally breaking up parties.
When Residence Assistants have to do so, they usually say that it is because of the noise the party is generating and the disruption the party is causing other people.
They say this because stopping a party because of its alcoholic content is so laughable as to be ridiculous.
But everyone knows it’s about the alcohol, and so everyone laughs anyway.
So my floormates and I are standing here with our French toast, listening to the extremely apologetic student, and all of us are smiling at the silliness of the occasionally alcoholophobic administration.
The next day, of course, some people will say that the party self-destructed because too few people showed up. Maybe this is true.
When different people tell you different things, it can get pretty confusing.
But if you look at NYU’s precedent, and think about why different people are saying different things instead of working together, it can also get pretty depressing very quickly.
And meanwhile, plates of French toast go wasted, organizers and participants get annoyed, and the next time someone asks me to make French toast for a party I know I personally will be very very wary about wasting my eggs.
Is this what everybody really wants?
Saturday, April 01, 2006
Play: Disembowelment
You like that steak? Not too rare? I usually get it rare and sometimes they get it too bloody. No? It’s okay? Okay then.
You want some wine to go with that, there’s some in the mini-bar. Wine makes steaks go down better, red wine, I think. My ex-wife and I took a wine course once, she was always into that self-improvement bullshit. Me, I was fine with beer.
No, no, I don’t want any. I – had a small drinking problem a few years ago, so it’s just water now. Steak and water.
I don’t usually do this, you know, but you looked so hungry out there in the cold, and – you don’t mind me shooting off, do you? No, that’s right, you eat, I talk, that sounds ‘bout right.
I could tell when I saw you, you know. That you’re a good listener. You got that ‘do your own time’ look. What? Yeah, it’s a prison thing, but don’t worry, I didn’t serve. I worked in the big house up in Texas once upon a time. Worked in the V.P. – vulnerable prisoners unit – the wife used to get a kick out of that, when she still found the blue suit sexy. (smiles) She wasn’t too good for handcuffs too, I’ll tell you that. But vulnerable prisoners, she thought that was a – whatcha-call-it – redundancy. “A redundancy in terms.” She could be a real bleeding heart sometimes. I could never tell her that the V.P.s are the bughouse crazy ones.
No, not doing that anymore. Hung up the blue suit and gave back the big stick about – what is it – yeah, ‘bout two years already. Now I’m in sales, travel round going to conferences in tux and tie, like, how crazy is that, right?
Fuck… two years. Can’t believe it’s been so long since – well, never mind ‘bout that.
(he broods for a moment)
It’s not that I hate this job, you know. I get to travel, go to fancy hotels, expense hookers. Tax-free fucking in big hotel beds.
But it’s boring shit, you know. The steaks and the hookers and the fucking products. I could roll off the fucking products for you by heart now, all 132 of them, fucking products and their S/N codes.
(he shakes his head in disgust, and then looks up)
You don’t mind me f-bombing, right? My wife hated it, said it was – uncouth. Unrefined. She was a real bitch sometimes, especially at the end. But we were happy once, you know. In the beginning. She liked that I worked in a prison, thought I was bettering society. I liked her too; she was a hotshot therapist, and she wasn’t just good at talking, you know what I’m saying?
(he smiles)
She could be such a cheerleader sometimes. But that was before she got all bughouse. Said I liked my job too much, wouldn’t you know. One second I’m saving the world a prisoner at a time, the next I’m some batshit crazy guy who gets off on suffering. She never got it, you know. She just never got it.
(he wait for a reaction, and is satisfied)
I’m glad you agree with me. You look like the sort of person who don’t mind blood and dirt, if you don’t mind me saying. (beat) You want another steak? I can getcha another one, might wanna get one for myself too. No?
But that’s all over for me now, you know. Now it’s this sales shit. Can’t get used to it – You know what they say; you never really get out of prison.
(he pauses)
Why did I quit then? (beat) I didn’t. I’d go back to the big house in a snap, but they won’t take me back.
Why?
No, it’s nothing like that. What do you think we are? It’s nothing like that. Me and five others, we were just – unlucky, you know. Two years ago something bad happened, we saw it, and they took us off, those who didn’t quit. ‘Shock And Extreme Trauma’, I still remember, is what the psych called it. Fucking trash-talk, basically.
You sure you wanna hear this? It’s pretty graphic.
Okay. So they called us to go to one of the cells, ‘assistance’ they called it, and they didn’t tell us anything more, so we knew it was gonna be bad, right. So I took this new kid, Evans, and two more officers, Hunt and Williams, and we went down with our sticks, you know.
And when we got there, the two officers already there were standing outside the cell. They wouldn’t go in cause it was blood everywhere, see. Floor, walls, bed literally dripping with blood. One of the cellies, Ricketts, strangled his bunkie and opened him up with a shank, see. Belly button to Adam’s apple. The sick bastard pulled out the liver and intestines, gave his bunkie a fucking lobotomy. So the stuff’s lying everywhere, there’s an eyeball on the locker, and another eyeball on the floor all stepped on and ground to bits, and the sick bastard’s standing at the back of the cell, holding his fucking bunkie’s heart, saying he’s gonna eat it and no-one can stop him. It was – it was…
(he shakes his head)
So Evans is puking everywhere, right, and nobody’s moving, and fucking Ricketts is there chewing on the goddamn heart, slurping it up, in goddamned fact, but we gotta follow protocol, right. So I went in, dragged Hunt in to cuff Ricketts, and I –
I gave Scofield – that was the bunkie’s name – I gave Scofield mouth-to-mouth. The fucker’s obviously dead, lying there with his insides on the outside, but you gotta follow the book, and the others – well.
So that was that.
You have the same look that my ex had. But that’s the worst part, I promise you.
So afterwards they made us all take psych sessions. Evans quit immediately, don’t blame the kid. It was a sick piece of shit. Godbear, Abrams, and Hunt didn’t last much longer either. So me and Williams, we stuck it out a bit longer, then Williams left too. Said he couldn’t eat meat without puking. Then it was just me, and then the psych wrote a report, said I was repressing ‘Shock And Extreme Trauma’, so they took me off too. Wrote each of us a big fat check afterwards. I got 500,000 big ones.
Then Rachel – my ex – left, said she couldn’t stand it, couldn’t even stand the thought of it, and she wasn’t even there.
(he pauses)
But like I said, I’d go back to the big house in a snap, I really would.
Why the fuck would I do that?
It’s just – how the fuck should I put this… It’s just – in the big house you have to keep sharp, you know? You have to deal with the rats, the rabbits, and the big bitches – that’s those doing life – they always have a shank somewhere for someone. Then you gotta deal with the new boots, pencil whip the convict bosses to keep ‘em in line, keep a finger on who’s riding with who, make sure the blickey doesn’t get out of hand, and all the while you gotta know when to keep your fucking nose out of gangs taking it to the square. You gotta – Grab The Danger, I don’t know, and when you can do all that, you feel –
(he pauses)
Yeah. Kinda like being a hobo. Kinda. (beat) And dying – people get shanked all the time. Sick shit goes down. Just – sick shit goes down, you know what I mean? And you gotta have people who are – not strong, but – people who won’t crack, you know? And you, and you can’t get – whatcha-call-it – desensitized too. Everyone gets desensitized, but desensitized gets you killed in a prison. Desensitized gets you killed in a war. That’s why I always told the wife that if you’re working in the V.P. you gotta – not love it – but you gotta – stay sharp. Take pride in your work, I guess some people say.
So I told her, Rach, baby, you keep talking, and you keep trying to stop all the bad stuff from happening, and when you get rid of all the rapists and murderers and the people who fuck 18 month-old babies and the people who chop up bodies and throw them into different cans round the state, you stop that, then I’ll stop too.
But until then, I told her, if I tell you I feel – I felt – alive – every day I spent in the V.P., don’t fucking stare at me like I’m crazy, I told her. Because you need people like me to keep your prisons, fight your wars – pull the heads off your chickens and slice the throats of your pigs. It’s people like us who keep doing while you keep talking, I told her. But she never got it. Even at the end. She kept crying, said she was Crying For My Humanity, wouldn’t you know it. She didn’t get it…
I Was More Human Than She Was. She was happy just – surviving. Talking. Fucking. She never saw – everything came to her in words, memories, nice products with labels. Repression. Guilt. Anger. Rage. Fear. But there are – you see a guy keestering a shank because he’s so scared out of his fucking mind, you hear fishes screaming after they’ve spent five days in the hole, or you step on an eyeball smashed to bits – after that you just – there are just – just some things that are – bigger, bigger than fucking words, you know what I’m saying? Even – hunger, or desperation – I get that, I’ve seen it, I don’t – I wouldn’t blame them…
(he looks down, and then looks up again, almost a challenge)
Well. They’re just such fucking huge things for such tiny words, but she never got that. Sometimes she was just a real mensch in her tailored Guccis. But I get it.
(he pauses)
And I did, you know. Feel alive. Like I was connected to something deep. I was the very best of the blue suits, rarely got red on me, but you know, guess I was lucky. But that’s all over now. Now it’s this – this pussy product-pushing. Getting fat and punchy. Sometimes I want – sometimes I think even a mugger could take me, you know?
(he looks away from the listener, but again nothing happens. He looks back)
I see. “This is the way the world ends, not with a bang but a whimper”, huh.
(a beat)
I think I will have one of those steaks. I’m gonna order up another rare one. You sure you don’t want one too?
You want some wine to go with that, there’s some in the mini-bar. Wine makes steaks go down better, red wine, I think. My ex-wife and I took a wine course once, she was always into that self-improvement bullshit. Me, I was fine with beer.
No, no, I don’t want any. I – had a small drinking problem a few years ago, so it’s just water now. Steak and water.
I don’t usually do this, you know, but you looked so hungry out there in the cold, and – you don’t mind me shooting off, do you? No, that’s right, you eat, I talk, that sounds ‘bout right.
I could tell when I saw you, you know. That you’re a good listener. You got that ‘do your own time’ look. What? Yeah, it’s a prison thing, but don’t worry, I didn’t serve. I worked in the big house up in Texas once upon a time. Worked in the V.P. – vulnerable prisoners unit – the wife used to get a kick out of that, when she still found the blue suit sexy. (smiles) She wasn’t too good for handcuffs too, I’ll tell you that. But vulnerable prisoners, she thought that was a – whatcha-call-it – redundancy. “A redundancy in terms.” She could be a real bleeding heart sometimes. I could never tell her that the V.P.s are the bughouse crazy ones.
No, not doing that anymore. Hung up the blue suit and gave back the big stick about – what is it – yeah, ‘bout two years already. Now I’m in sales, travel round going to conferences in tux and tie, like, how crazy is that, right?
Fuck… two years. Can’t believe it’s been so long since – well, never mind ‘bout that.
(he broods for a moment)
It’s not that I hate this job, you know. I get to travel, go to fancy hotels, expense hookers. Tax-free fucking in big hotel beds.
But it’s boring shit, you know. The steaks and the hookers and the fucking products. I could roll off the fucking products for you by heart now, all 132 of them, fucking products and their S/N codes.
(he shakes his head in disgust, and then looks up)
You don’t mind me f-bombing, right? My wife hated it, said it was – uncouth. Unrefined. She was a real bitch sometimes, especially at the end. But we were happy once, you know. In the beginning. She liked that I worked in a prison, thought I was bettering society. I liked her too; she was a hotshot therapist, and she wasn’t just good at talking, you know what I’m saying?
(he smiles)
She could be such a cheerleader sometimes. But that was before she got all bughouse. Said I liked my job too much, wouldn’t you know. One second I’m saving the world a prisoner at a time, the next I’m some batshit crazy guy who gets off on suffering. She never got it, you know. She just never got it.
(he wait for a reaction, and is satisfied)
I’m glad you agree with me. You look like the sort of person who don’t mind blood and dirt, if you don’t mind me saying. (beat) You want another steak? I can getcha another one, might wanna get one for myself too. No?
But that’s all over for me now, you know. Now it’s this sales shit. Can’t get used to it – You know what they say; you never really get out of prison.
(he pauses)
Why did I quit then? (beat) I didn’t. I’d go back to the big house in a snap, but they won’t take me back.
Why?
No, it’s nothing like that. What do you think we are? It’s nothing like that. Me and five others, we were just – unlucky, you know. Two years ago something bad happened, we saw it, and they took us off, those who didn’t quit. ‘Shock And Extreme Trauma’, I still remember, is what the psych called it. Fucking trash-talk, basically.
You sure you wanna hear this? It’s pretty graphic.
Okay. So they called us to go to one of the cells, ‘assistance’ they called it, and they didn’t tell us anything more, so we knew it was gonna be bad, right. So I took this new kid, Evans, and two more officers, Hunt and Williams, and we went down with our sticks, you know.
And when we got there, the two officers already there were standing outside the cell. They wouldn’t go in cause it was blood everywhere, see. Floor, walls, bed literally dripping with blood. One of the cellies, Ricketts, strangled his bunkie and opened him up with a shank, see. Belly button to Adam’s apple. The sick bastard pulled out the liver and intestines, gave his bunkie a fucking lobotomy. So the stuff’s lying everywhere, there’s an eyeball on the locker, and another eyeball on the floor all stepped on and ground to bits, and the sick bastard’s standing at the back of the cell, holding his fucking bunkie’s heart, saying he’s gonna eat it and no-one can stop him. It was – it was…
(he shakes his head)
So Evans is puking everywhere, right, and nobody’s moving, and fucking Ricketts is there chewing on the goddamn heart, slurping it up, in goddamned fact, but we gotta follow protocol, right. So I went in, dragged Hunt in to cuff Ricketts, and I –
I gave Scofield – that was the bunkie’s name – I gave Scofield mouth-to-mouth. The fucker’s obviously dead, lying there with his insides on the outside, but you gotta follow the book, and the others – well.
So that was that.
You have the same look that my ex had. But that’s the worst part, I promise you.
So afterwards they made us all take psych sessions. Evans quit immediately, don’t blame the kid. It was a sick piece of shit. Godbear, Abrams, and Hunt didn’t last much longer either. So me and Williams, we stuck it out a bit longer, then Williams left too. Said he couldn’t eat meat without puking. Then it was just me, and then the psych wrote a report, said I was repressing ‘Shock And Extreme Trauma’, so they took me off too. Wrote each of us a big fat check afterwards. I got 500,000 big ones.
Then Rachel – my ex – left, said she couldn’t stand it, couldn’t even stand the thought of it, and she wasn’t even there.
(he pauses)
But like I said, I’d go back to the big house in a snap, I really would.
Why the fuck would I do that?
It’s just – how the fuck should I put this… It’s just – in the big house you have to keep sharp, you know? You have to deal with the rats, the rabbits, and the big bitches – that’s those doing life – they always have a shank somewhere for someone. Then you gotta deal with the new boots, pencil whip the convict bosses to keep ‘em in line, keep a finger on who’s riding with who, make sure the blickey doesn’t get out of hand, and all the while you gotta know when to keep your fucking nose out of gangs taking it to the square. You gotta – Grab The Danger, I don’t know, and when you can do all that, you feel –
(he pauses)
Yeah. Kinda like being a hobo. Kinda. (beat) And dying – people get shanked all the time. Sick shit goes down. Just – sick shit goes down, you know what I mean? And you gotta have people who are – not strong, but – people who won’t crack, you know? And you, and you can’t get – whatcha-call-it – desensitized too. Everyone gets desensitized, but desensitized gets you killed in a prison. Desensitized gets you killed in a war. That’s why I always told the wife that if you’re working in the V.P. you gotta – not love it – but you gotta – stay sharp. Take pride in your work, I guess some people say.
So I told her, Rach, baby, you keep talking, and you keep trying to stop all the bad stuff from happening, and when you get rid of all the rapists and murderers and the people who fuck 18 month-old babies and the people who chop up bodies and throw them into different cans round the state, you stop that, then I’ll stop too.
But until then, I told her, if I tell you I feel – I felt – alive – every day I spent in the V.P., don’t fucking stare at me like I’m crazy, I told her. Because you need people like me to keep your prisons, fight your wars – pull the heads off your chickens and slice the throats of your pigs. It’s people like us who keep doing while you keep talking, I told her. But she never got it. Even at the end. She kept crying, said she was Crying For My Humanity, wouldn’t you know it. She didn’t get it…
I Was More Human Than She Was. She was happy just – surviving. Talking. Fucking. She never saw – everything came to her in words, memories, nice products with labels. Repression. Guilt. Anger. Rage. Fear. But there are – you see a guy keestering a shank because he’s so scared out of his fucking mind, you hear fishes screaming after they’ve spent five days in the hole, or you step on an eyeball smashed to bits – after that you just – there are just – just some things that are – bigger, bigger than fucking words, you know what I’m saying? Even – hunger, or desperation – I get that, I’ve seen it, I don’t – I wouldn’t blame them…
(he looks down, and then looks up again, almost a challenge)
Well. They’re just such fucking huge things for such tiny words, but she never got that. Sometimes she was just a real mensch in her tailored Guccis. But I get it.
(he pauses)
And I did, you know. Feel alive. Like I was connected to something deep. I was the very best of the blue suits, rarely got red on me, but you know, guess I was lucky. But that’s all over now. Now it’s this – this pussy product-pushing. Getting fat and punchy. Sometimes I want – sometimes I think even a mugger could take me, you know?
(he looks away from the listener, but again nothing happens. He looks back)
I see. “This is the way the world ends, not with a bang but a whimper”, huh.
(a beat)
I think I will have one of those steaks. I’m gonna order up another rare one. You sure you don’t want one too?
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